Busy Time

It’s been a long time to write something. It’s not because I don’t have any topic to write, infect, I got many topics, the only problem is time. Life is full on busy. Whenever I get the time and want to write something, become lazy and do rest.

But today I switched off my TV, open my lappy and start writing. (Thinking about the topic).Let’s start with a time. In today era, everyone is busy, except kids (nursery kids).So am I. No one wants to sit ideal at home. I know to do home task properly, is one of the toughest job. So for me but I had a dream to have my own business.Yes, this is the only reason I stop writing for a while.

In a mean time I started my business, I don’t know in future where it(business) goes, yet I had started. Atleast in future I will not regret about, not did anything in life. I don’t want to use ‘may be, if ‘words in my future for regretting something from my life.

In an age of 30’s you have full potential, lot of energy and most important many innovative ideas.So, this a time we can start new things. We can do lots of hard work and stand our new business. I know one thing “IF YOU DO HARD WORK TODAY, ONLY THEN, YOU SIT PEACEFULLY IN FUTURE .IF YOU SIT PEACEFULLY TODAY, THEN YOU WILL HAVE TO HARDWORK.”If you deeply think about it, first one is good option.

“I DONT HAVE TIME”, heard from many people, even I am also use to say these words. Because of these words I can’t get time to write blog, that’s why writing this blog in midnight. My sister use to say”time nikalne se nikalta hai”.If you want to do work then by hook or crook you will do that work. If the Sword of Damocles hangs over someone’s head only then, they have time to do work.

I know it’s very difficult but try to do work systematically, so that, you don’t need to say

TIME IS THE ONLY PROBLEM

POTTY TRAINING

I saw many queries related to potty training. Even I want to know it.Yes,my daughter ,3 years old, does not tell me about potty.Still,I am writing this post to tell others about what I did wrong .

The right age to train your baby is 2 years .You must be thinking 2 years? Baby is too small to train. Yes, he is too small but he is not too small to understand it.If this stage pass he become stubborn and don’t want to tell.

I used to tell my daughter with a smile that we do potty in bathroom, I did this for 1 year,  I never scolded her as I was thinking that she was too small. BUT a day came when I realized how important, at least in this stage, for a mother that baby must tell about potty.

I and my husband were in airport and she did potty. I didn’t said any word to her and took her to ladies toilet and where she refused to sit on toilet seat .She literally crying and I shouted her like a mad person but of  no use .I couldn’t call my husband too(ladies toilet).NOW WHAT? Finally, I got my angel, washroom attendant she helped me. At that time I made  promise in her holidays I taught her about potty.Everytime she did potty in panty I scolded her ,she used to scare of me  and said”mumma  aap nahi samjhaoge na”,”nahi,mumma ko nahi batana” etc.In the last I gave up because I don’t want my baby will start scaring of me.

From that day onwards I sometimes scold her,sometimes explain her and sometimes don’t say anything.Waiting for the day when she will tell me” mumma potty ayi hai”.

From my experienced i come to know that yes you have to be strict  about potty. If you think that it not work try after some days. 

YOU HAVE TO BE STRICT AND HAVE TO CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS.

After scolding him/her, don’t try to console him/her. You hug him/her after 1 hour or when you think its a right time

IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BABY DO LIKE MY PAGE AND FOLLOW MY BLOG.

Speech 3

In a hope all you stammered doing your exercise well .now its time for next chapter.I make it short and simple .if you noticed your speech you stuck on few alphabets like ‘k’,’s’ etc.

Now what you have to do is counting. Speak 4 digits at a time or you can say in one breath like 1,2,3,4 then 2 seconds break then 5,6,7,8 like this, do it till 100.Not to forget to write the time and your own remarks in a therapy note book.

Like this you can also read short stories, first in hindi then after 1 week you can start English stories too. After 4-5 words make a slash, this recall you that you don’t have to read more than this in a breath.

Feel free to ask me anything about it. Next chapter will come soon

Not to forget to practice regularly.

Remember it takes time ,more than 6 months. It’s not easy to change your habits.

SPEECH 2

Declaration:-I AM NOT A DOCTOR

It is just a kind of speech therapy. Before starting anything keep following points in mind

·         Make a notebook to note your exercise time

·         Note your week points

·         Do exercise daily (at least for an hour)

Breathing affects your speech a lot. So first of all prepare a bed and lie on it. Slowly inhale and exhale. When you exhale start saying ‘aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa’like this, say all vowels sound. Don’t give any pressure while saying vowels sound. When you are exhaling only then you say vowel sound.

This is the first exercise, start doing it .Soon you get next exercise.

Remember slow and steady win the race

Don’t give up

Exercises are easy but effective, so do it in a proper way.

For further guidance do write to me.

ALL THE BEST!!!!!!

Speech 1

People judge you, first by your looks and then by your speech. Looks you can change easily but changing the way you talk needs so much practice. I am not talking about language. I am talking about the way you speak your language.

Speaking confidently is the only key by which a salesman, sale his product.

Some people speak too fast or too slow. Too fast people hardly understandable and too slow, people don’t want to listen them. And some people stammer. People also don’t want to listen them, if they listen, they stop stammerer in between the line or just start laughing, which decrease their moral to speak.

These are actually habits, which are going to increase as time passes because:-

·         Person is too small to know the outcomes of these problems

·         No one is there to guide them

·         People laugh which decrease their confidence

I AM NOT A DOCTOR. Here I want to tell my experience, yes my, I was the sufferer from one of these problem but with proper guidance I overcome from it.

So I want to share my experience and exercises through which I overcome it but in my next blog. May be at least one person get overcome from it.

Stay tune for next blog and do share your nearer and dearer experiences.

KIDDLE

KIDS, so much advance, they know everything which we didn’t know ,when we were in their age. If we see one side, this is good but if we see other side of it, not so good. As a mother I want my child is of good behavior, doesn’t harm herself or others. I know in child’s behavior environment is one of the factors but there are another factors also and from them one is internet.

Computer is a demand of today’s era. Even in school, teachers are giving that kind of homework or projects for which students have to use internet. There are many search engines but everyone thinks,what we want, we only get it from google. So according to me only one search engine is there for students as well i.e. ‘GOOGLE’ but did you notice one thing same engine is for adults as well as for students. Students can see whatever they like unless and until someone supervise them. Practically, this is not possible. A child wants to see and eager to know everything.

 KIDDLE(google's baby) I don’t know how much of you are aware about the word “KIDDLE”. Few days back even I also didn’t aware about KIDDLE and frankly speaking I didn’t show any interest in this word until and unless my dd has grown up and started to going to use internet. In few years she will start using internet on her own and in her search some subjects will be there which are not good for her at least at her age. I hope you can understand what I am talking about.

You can say by luck I had seen one of my post on my facebook page”https://www.facebook.com/pg/garyreviews/posts/”  The post is only a pic of KIDDLE and then I started searching about it. Here my search says :-

Ø  It’s of GOOGLE
Ø only you get kid related subjects,if you want to search anything another than that ,you get "no result". 

The only drawback is that after using Google, it’s so difficult and confusing to use KIDDLE but as children get use to it,I am damn sure this drawback will no more become a drawback.

So parents instead of any search engine, start using KIDDLE with a hope, for your children internet is boon.

KID'S TIME

DO WE GIVE OUR CHILD ENOUGH TIME?I saw many posts relating to mobile and television.

“my child is spending too much of time on phone”

“phone addictive” and many more like this.

Don’t you ever think why they are addictive?and Why are we not so addictive, when we are children?

Simple answer we have siblings and also we play outside games. Hope you all remember those games(stapu, badminton,pitthu phod,raja rani,och nich ka papda ,what colour you want).Today, children are either one or two and outside game ......forget it.

 All parents want to love their kids as much as they can, they want to give them everything, and their kid is like everything for them. T hats why some parents don’t want another child because they don’t want to share all their feelings to another kid (not born yet). Even with this feeling ,they don’t realize that they are ignoring their kids. They give them phone or tv,so that child gets busy in something especially in case of a child, if you have two ,may be they are busy with each other but in that case also this addictiveness is still there but percentage decreases.

It doesn’t matter how many kids you have, what I matter, why some parents are not giving their time to their kid/s. They only give them mobiles to watch you tubes or to play games or TV so that their kid/s can watch cartoons or songs. Even before sometimes I also used to do that, therefore I know there are many reasons for doing this.

• Wants some rest
• Wants to do household or office work
• Most important, child could eat something

BUT..

One day my sis watsapp me an article that one boy cut his nerves only because parents did not give him PHONE. At very same time my daughter came in my mind.”NOOOOOO”.I decided not to give her phone, although, I know at this stage it was too difficult but I would try. Then I started playing with her as much as I can or try to busy her in some activities or toys. At that time I realized if I am with her she doesn’t need anything.

When I deeply think I realised I have only one child and she has only one childhood. If I missed her childhood now, it will never return. I can’t see my  child childhood again (as I don’t know about second, whether he/she come or not) if not, then? If this time goes, I never play with her like this way. So decided, now I am her phone, I know it’s too hard for me, but at least I can try, if she was on phone 3 hours, I definitely said that it will come to 1 hour.

From 10 days I am doing this, also succeeded in it. How I come to know? Before my data consumption more than 1 GB but know 600 MB left. WOW!

I know all parents know phone is not good for a child but still they gave them .In starting it was a need for parents slowly and  slowly it becomes the need of child. So know when I have to give phone to my daughter, after 10 minutes I give call on phone and as a good child she gives phone back to me and I start playing with her or give her some drawing book.

With a hope I stopping my pen that “I AND YOU WILL GIVE TIME TO OUR CHILDREN” and always keeps in mind

“TIMES NEVER COMES BACK”