Speech 3

In a hope all you stammered doing your exercise well .now its time for next chapter.I make it short and simple .if you noticed your speech you stuck on few alphabets like ‘k’,’s’ etc.

Now what you have to do is counting. Speak 4 digits at a time or you can say in one breath like 1,2,3,4 then 2 seconds break then 5,6,7,8 like this, do it till 100.Not to forget to write the time and your own remarks in a therapy note book.

Like this you can also read short stories, first in hindi then after 1 week you can start English stories too. After 4-5 words make a slash, this recall you that you don’t have to read more than this in a breath.

Feel free to ask me anything about it. Next chapter will come soon

Not to forget to practice regularly.

Remember it takes time ,more than 6 months. It’s not easy to change your habits.

SPEECH 2

Declaration:-I AM NOT A DOCTOR

It is just a kind of speech therapy. Before starting anything keep following points in mind

·         Make a notebook to note your exercise time

·         Note your week points

·         Do exercise daily (at least for an hour)

Breathing affects your speech a lot. So first of all prepare a bed and lie on it. Slowly inhale and exhale. When you exhale start saying ‘aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa’like this, say all vowels sound. Don’t give any pressure while saying vowels sound. When you are exhaling only then you say vowel sound.

This is the first exercise, start doing it .Soon you get next exercise.

Remember slow and steady win the race

Don’t give up

Exercises are easy but effective, so do it in a proper way.

For further guidance do write to me.

ALL THE BEST!!!!!!

Speech 1

People judge you, first by your looks and then by your speech. Looks you can change easily but changing the way you talk needs so much practice. I am not talking about language. I am talking about the way you speak your language.

Speaking confidently is the only key by which a salesman, sale his product.

Some people speak too fast or too slow. Too fast people hardly understandable and too slow, people don’t want to listen them. And some people stammer. People also don’t want to listen them, if they listen, they stop stammerer in between the line or just start laughing, which decrease their moral to speak.

These are actually habits, which are going to increase as time passes because:-

·         Person is too small to know the outcomes of these problems

·         No one is there to guide them

·         People laugh which decrease their confidence

I AM NOT A DOCTOR. Here I want to tell my experience, yes my, I was the sufferer from one of these problem but with proper guidance I overcome from it.

So I want to share my experience and exercises through which I overcome it but in my next blog. May be at least one person get overcome from it.

Stay tune for next blog and do share your nearer and dearer experiences.

KIDDLE

KIDS, so much advance, they know everything which we didn’t know ,when we were in their age. If we see one side, this is good but if we see other side of it, not so good. As a mother I want my child is of good behavior, doesn’t harm herself or others. I know in child’s behavior environment is one of the factors but there are another factors also and from them one is internet.

Computer is a demand of today’s era. Even in school, teachers are giving that kind of homework or projects for which students have to use internet. There are many search engines but everyone thinks,what we want, we only get it from google. So according to me only one search engine is there for students as well i.e. ‘GOOGLE’ but did you notice one thing same engine is for adults as well as for students. Students can see whatever they like unless and until someone supervise them. Practically, this is not possible. A child wants to see and eager to know everything.

 KIDDLE(google's baby) I don’t know how much of you are aware about the word “KIDDLE”. Few days back even I also didn’t aware about KIDDLE and frankly speaking I didn’t show any interest in this word until and unless my dd has grown up and started to going to use internet. In few years she will start using internet on her own and in her search some subjects will be there which are not good for her at least at her age. I hope you can understand what I am talking about.

You can say by luck I had seen one of my post on my facebook page”https://www.facebook.com/pg/garyreviews/posts/”  The post is only a pic of KIDDLE and then I started searching about it. Here my search says :-

Ø  It’s of GOOGLE
Ø only you get kid related subjects,if you want to search anything another than that ,you get "no result". 

The only drawback is that after using Google, it’s so difficult and confusing to use KIDDLE but as children get use to it,I am damn sure this drawback will no more become a drawback.

So parents instead of any search engine, start using KIDDLE with a hope, for your children internet is boon.

KID'S TIME

DO WE GIVE OUR CHILD ENOUGH TIME?I saw many posts relating to mobile and television.

“my child is spending too much of time on phone”

“phone addictive” and many more like this.

Don’t you ever think why they are addictive?and Why are we not so addictive, when we are children?

Simple answer we have siblings and also we play outside games. Hope you all remember those games(stapu, badminton,pitthu phod,raja rani,och nich ka papda ,what colour you want).Today, children are either one or two and outside game ......forget it.

 All parents want to love their kids as much as they can, they want to give them everything, and their kid is like everything for them. T hats why some parents don’t want another child because they don’t want to share all their feelings to another kid (not born yet). Even with this feeling ,they don’t realize that they are ignoring their kids. They give them phone or tv,so that child gets busy in something especially in case of a child, if you have two ,may be they are busy with each other but in that case also this addictiveness is still there but percentage decreases.

It doesn’t matter how many kids you have, what I matter, why some parents are not giving their time to their kid/s. They only give them mobiles to watch you tubes or to play games or TV so that their kid/s can watch cartoons or songs. Even before sometimes I also used to do that, therefore I know there are many reasons for doing this.

• Wants some rest
• Wants to do household or office work
• Most important, child could eat something

BUT..

One day my sis watsapp me an article that one boy cut his nerves only because parents did not give him PHONE. At very same time my daughter came in my mind.”NOOOOOO”.I decided not to give her phone, although, I know at this stage it was too difficult but I would try. Then I started playing with her as much as I can or try to busy her in some activities or toys. At that time I realized if I am with her she doesn’t need anything.

When I deeply think I realised I have only one child and she has only one childhood. If I missed her childhood now, it will never return. I can’t see my  child childhood again (as I don’t know about second, whether he/she come or not) if not, then? If this time goes, I never play with her like this way. So decided, now I am her phone, I know it’s too hard for me, but at least I can try, if she was on phone 3 hours, I definitely said that it will come to 1 hour.

From 10 days I am doing this, also succeeded in it. How I come to know? Before my data consumption more than 1 GB but know 600 MB left. WOW!

I know all parents know phone is not good for a child but still they gave them .In starting it was a need for parents slowly and  slowly it becomes the need of child. So know when I have to give phone to my daughter, after 10 minutes I give call on phone and as a good child she gives phone back to me and I start playing with her or give her some drawing book.

With a hope I stopping my pen that “I AND YOU WILL GIVE TIME TO OUR CHILDREN” and always keeps in mind

“TIMES NEVER COMES BACK”

ONE OR TWO

One or two? Every couple will confuse in it whether they will have one or two children. No doubt, I am also in confusion but right now I have a beautiful and sweet daughter.Many couples are facing or will face same problem today or tomorrow. Now let’s start a debate on it.

Now a day’s price of everything is getting increasing day by day either you take vegetables or petrol. No need to ask school fees. It’s touching a sky .I don’t know in coming time where it will go, rather up or down? According to me fees don’t get down until and unless government will take some strict actions. If we talk about our daily needs, I don’t think they will get down .That’s why inflation is the main reason of having a child. People usually say”ek toh achi se pal jaye” (grow one child in a good way).Another reason, parents don’t want to share their love with another child. If someone will ask me about this; “DON’T YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF”, my only answer.  Few more reasons may be figure conscious, don’t like children, did one only because of family pressure and blah blah.

Now we talk about having two children –they both have a company of each other .In big cities, people even don’t know who your neighbours are? Parents don’t want to send their child at other’s house .Today no one believe in others. This is just because of so many criminal activities are happening around us, then, why one should believe in others? A child needs company; they can share their secrets which they can’t say to their parents. They help each other in time of needs. At one time parents are not with them; even then they have a family, their sibling/s.

When I am with my siblings, that time was my memorable time. We talked about our childhood, our family and friends .They tell us what is right or wrong. What we should in particular case or what we not. In short, they are our guide too. I know you may be thinking, today,”bhai bhai ka nahi hota” ,you are somewhat correct but you can see many example of brotherhood around you. Then why we are thinking so negative .Today also children send their parents to old age home or even throw out from their  houses, that doesn’t mean because of this you don’t want a child. In this case you are thinking positive then why in later case.

Now I think the main problem is MONEY .Who said to send your in high school, give them branded clothes? You can send him/her in not so high school, give them normal clothes. If you want, you can do anything. Where there is a will, there is a way. If you ask me of having another child my only fear GOING ALL THOSE THING AGAIN?

I only want to say think about your child future, his/her family, when you are not their. Before taking any decision think 100 times.

BREASTFEEDING (BF)

Hello

Whenever I am going though any of mommies’ page or app, I saw many mommies were asking ‘how to stop breastfeeding (BF)?’

When I was new to these pages and I saw first post of BF. My reaction BF-“BOYFRIEND”?😥 , in a fraction of second I come to know it’s a breast feeding😅. I like the short form BF. So here also I am using BF instead of breastfeeding. I generally found a post, in each page, of BF. So, I decided to write on BF. I know my post not solved the problem of all moms’ but at least of few moms’.

Generally moms have a problem of how to stop her child from taking BF.Child is used to that milk (kyu na ho ). When my daughter was born (c-section), giving BF first time was so difficult but as time passes it’s become fine. My sis-in-law suggested me start bottle also otherwise it become a problem. I heard that BF is very good for a child but she was suggesting me from her experienced .In starting I felt very bad but now when I am thinking about it ,I feel  it was  very good decision😊.

As child use of bottle from starting, so when the time comes when you want to stop BF, It’s become little bit easy for you. When I felt it’s time for my daughter to stop BF. I started giving BF and bottle both but on the alternative basis. At night when she was sleeping and hungry I prefer BF. Slowly and slowly BF was replaced by some solid food and some by bottle but at night BF.As time passes I started  giving solid food to my daughter before going to bed so that she would not wake at night .It takes few days but yes she stop waking at night. As BF taking was reducing so do milk and finally she left.

In this way BF also stop and night wakening is also stop. This was my experienced. All mom’s think differently, so do I.